This article will be useful for those guys who are going to marry a Russian woman. Learn 5 most popular mistakes westerners make with dating russian women. The first one is the most significant; others are of about the same value.
1. Giving her money. Don't send your money to someone who you just met via Internet. Remember that a straight lady would not beg; she has too much self-esteem. Besides, she has already lived for more than twenty years without you. Why would she need your help now? Any Russian girl who asks you for cash is only trying to scam you. An Eastern European woman does not even consider the two of you to be in a serious relationship until you have seen each other in person! Would you give your money to a girl from your country that you had just met? Think about it. It is simply not clever and may bring you trouble (and makes the women think it is easy and encourages more of the similar behavior).
2. Not asking her questions. You are looking for a help mate, not someone to simply spend the time. Former Soviet Union girls are honest (for the most part) and they deserve the proper respect. And one more thing, if you do not put her questions to find out more about her, her family etc… she will soon decide that you are playing games. Then she will dump you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are truly willing to make a family, you should be putting her all kinds of questions! Not only put all kinds of different questions, but ask them several times in different ways, just to make sure if you get consistent answers By the way it's a great way to protect yourself from a scam!
3. Giving her the pictures she doesn't need. Don't send her photos of your house or other welfare measure. If you do, you will attract the wrong type of lady. An ordinary Russian girl is more concerned about your soul than she is about your money. If you concentrate on your things, she may decide you are a shallow and insecure man. Concentrating on your money only seems to work on girls from the US, the most superficial and windy women in the world! Eastern Europe is not America, you do not need to impress these ladies with possessions! Show them your sensitive side, what you like to do, what you think and feel and you'll get a thankful wife.
4. Not preparing properly for a visit. Did you know that in order to bring her to your country as a fiancee, you have to go to her country first? Yes, it is the only way she will be able to get a visa to come to the USA. A Ukrainian woman, if she is family oriented, will want to meet you. You have to be ready to visit her at some point in the future. A woman will generally give you about 6 months to decide you will visit. Then a few more months get ready. If you make her wait longer than this she will decide you are not serious and write to a man she would think is more serious! Just be prepared physically and monetarily.
5. Not having plan B. It's a big error! If you eventually go over to Russia, you never know what will wait for you there. Be prepared to get a few unexpected results! No matter how many letters you have written to your lady or how many times you called her, once you see her in reality, things will become different. Probably you two look at each other and understand it is not going to happen. Your plan B will protect you in this case. And don't make a journey just for one woman (unless you have already met). Meet two or three. Also try to be on good terms with at least one of the local agencies in the city you will be visiting. Know their contact information. Later, if things don't work out, you will be able to contact the other agency and meet other ladies.
So, try to follow these recommendations and you will surely have luck with dating russian women